Aycliffe couple, Mike and Marie Holton talked about the possibility of fostering for a long time, but once they made the decision they sat down with their children to discuss it with them and then the family as a whole. Fostering 100% needs to be a whole family decision as it will affect them all.
They made initial enquiries and met with several IFA’s (independent fostering organisation) and the Local Authority before choosing the Children’s Family Trust to pursue their dream of fostering. The company ethos was fantastic, and as a not for profit charity they knew that their focus is about the children and Mike and Marie receive 24/7 support, 365 days per year.
They also obtain ongoing specific training to the needs of the children they are caring for, and participation events where the children and carers get together to enjoy activities as well as the opportunity for carers to talk about their experiences and any issues they may be facing.
This support is invaluable for any carer, and the Trust even help with swimming lesson costs, driving lessons and rewards for great exam results which shows the children are truly at the heart of everything.
Marie told Newton News: “Our birth children especially our young daughter, have been the biggest support; she had to share her parents, welcome children into her home and then say goodbye only to start again. It’s been amazing to watch the unconditional love and patience they have all shown, plus our parents and extended family have also been a huge support.
We also have the ‘Staying Put’ arrangement which means if the children in your care would like to stay on with you after their 18th birthday then this can be agreed by both the family and the young person. This is a huge reassurance for both parties as in a real family setting, who’s ready to move out at 18?”
Marie and Mike’s journey from throughout the process was intense as their whole lives are laid bare starting with their own childhood, but this for them was reassuring as it was good to see such a robust selection procedure.
They are now approaching their second year of fostering and couldn’t be happier. They have two amazing brothers who are settled, happy and thriving within the family.
Marie said: “It feels great to make such a difference to children’s lives with a great team supporting us. If you have thought about fostering, have a spare bedroom, drive, have time, patience, understanding and the ability to commit to a young person’s life then please get in touch with us at The Children’s Family Trust for a further discussion (An open day was on Monday 26th March between 10:00-14:00).”
Telephone: 01388 779444
